I got a moa from the Admiral. I also got a guild invite, but when I looked at it, it didn't seem like the right one, so I declined. But it was (Legion of Blood Angels, I think it was called), send me a new invite. Or tell me what the Ft Aspenwood guildname is.
We don't actually have a Ft. Aspenwood guild, because up until this week it was just myself and Falafals playing on that server. We're in the Penny Arcade forum guild, but it's unfortunately full at the moment. Fortunately, you can be in multiple guilds in GW2, and I'm happy to make one to facilitate conversation between DCers. Or if there's already a cross-server DC guild, we could just join that one. You can't group up in the outerworld with people from different servers yet (I have a suspicion guesting will be in sometime quite soon, though) but we can do dungeons together once you guys get to level 30.
As for Ft. Aspenwood itself, it's very much not an RP server of any sort, but it's a pretty friendly place in general. It's about midway up the World vs. World ladder, which is a good place to be, and there's no single giant dominating community on it. As on every server ever, keep General Chat on at your own risk.